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About staying at my mum's house
Yes, it has been almost three months since our little family (hubby, me and little emir) "moved" to my mum house. The idea came in one afternoon when I asked my hubby was it possible to stay a month at my mum's house during Ramadhan and out of sudden, he agreed with the idea.
For the first week travelling from Ampang to Damansara, we have been mentally tortured by the heavy traffic and of cos, the fuel cost. Hubby has persuaded me to move back to our house on the second week of puasa but I keep it silence and mum.
Honestly, the reason was, sahur!! I dont mind rushing back home and cooked for mr. Husband but yeah, I do mind waking up a bit earlier in the wee hour of morning for sahur especially thinking that I have to clean up all the mess and even worst, kesabaran membangunkan laki aku sendiri. Patient is a must, if not he will scream at me even though I have tried to wake him up for almost an hour.
And for some reasons, we are still there in Kemensah. We missed to invite our relatives and friends to come over to our house for Hari Raya and this is FAQ
"kenape duduk rumah mama"
.. and I have only one simple answer
"saje.. best, tidur senang, makan senang, gaduh pun kurang"
Why? If I am at home, I do need some help from my husband. I can easily become irritated seeing him sleeping, reading the newspaper, repairing his camera or glued in front of the computer while I am cooking. He could help mandikan emir ke, kemas sikit-sikit ke, basuh baju or anything yang boleh lembuktkan hati but err...
Emir on the other hand, he needs someone to play with him and mr. husband, once he is at "work", he cannot be "touched". If I requested for extra hands, I have to wait for another extra extra minutes / hours which resulted me getting annoyed and membebel and this is where the good day ends..
and this is definitely unnecessary stress..
But here at my mum's house, I have more ample time. The food is ready, I can cook whereever I feel I like to and the siblings who I can give more "instructions".
But, for some people, they simply say
"eh ape ni, dah ade rumah sendiri pun nak duduk ngan mak"
eh kawan, suke hati la kan. my mother is living in Kl, near to my office and she appreciates a lot better if Im staying with her. She has a friend to talk, more secure since my hubby is around, my son has a lot of "friends" to play with, or in other words SHE DOESNT MIND at all. So please stop questioning with that kind of uncomfortable remarks as if I seorang yang sangat pemalas.
If I seorang yang sangat pemalas pun, whats your problem, my hubby still loves me. Im enjoying myself to the max. and hey, I can cook FAR more better than you or FAR more better than your wife. Im a cooking wife, I dont trust outside food. Kalau makan luar, it is just Im lazy to cook or my hubby tired to listen to my ceramah tak berbayar.
"eh mira, ko ni nak senang jer"
Eh apahal. Semua orang hidup nak senang la, tak de sape nak hidup susah. Kalau boleh semua orang tanak keje tapi duit masuk, tapi rule of thumb tak macam tu. You earn when you work hard. But this one kesenangan yang Allah beri kat i, I have my mum near to me and she will be going somewhere in the next few months and for sure I will will miss miss her a lot. I tak pernah separated with her this far in my entire life. No more nak senang lenang macam ni. In a next few months, I have to do everything on my own. Thinking what to do if my son's sick. Where should I park myself during the weekends and where to put my son when I want to "escape" for my own time.
Maybe you all senang part lain, maybe you dont have to work hard cos the money is already ready for you. You tak payah fikir macam mane nak bayar rumah, macam mane nak bayar kerete. Maid u baik tak buat hal. Semua rezeki masing masing.. and above is my rezeki..
"eh kenape marah sangat ni"
Entah, bengang kot..
"so bile nak balik rumah sendiri"
Entah, tapi rindu jugak. Rindu nak bersilat balik kat rumah tu. Rindu nak buat keje tak henti-henti. Rindu rindu rindu.. Tapi hubby pun relax jer.. Hati dia pun tenang.. Nak nak banyak bukit kat melawati tu :) Tengok la hubby bile dia setuju nak ..... rumah.
"tapi kalau lame you kat rumah mak u, gemuk laa you sebab relax banyak sangat"
Tak jugak, emir dah nakal, tak duduk diam, exercise kat situ jugak la. Anyway, memang i dah gemuk pun, so buat macam mane still gemuk..
"Bile nak diet"
Ni topik lain ni, will update later.. :)